Sexually Abused by Church Music Director | Male Sexual Abuse



“He slowly started to pull me in, unbeknownst to me.” To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and …

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  1. Shows how young teens are not mature to make proper decisions. At that age it is easy to over ride common since and conviction . I fill when you been abused and you walk back through that door back into it you loose the right to call abuse for you are experimenting with your new experiences in my opinion. I had been abused for 5 years and i never volunteered to go back to it. Yes you were groomed and sexually abused if it ended there and reported and got therapy the outcome for you would be better but now you have the guilt and injury of knowing you went back through that door voluntary. I remember being teenager and drinking beer with other teens, i hated taste of beer but continued with it to be accepted and have friends. Your cituation turned in about the same cituation. I hope the guitar player got help or in jail for he has a great start as a psychopath.

  2. Let's put it this way .. when you indoctrinate someone to believe that they should always be brave, always be strong, always be athletic and competitive, show no emotion, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week .. and then put them in a situation with an authority figure where they have no control and no defense against the intense feelings an adult experience can illicit . It can truly harm an individual's sense of self, their ability to trust, their self esteem (since we all treat sex as taboo).

    "Well you must have liked it.". Maybe .. depending on how you are groomed .. your body has a certain physiological response to sex whether your mind wants it or not.

    For me, it was the first time anyone had ever held me like they wanted me. But that just ultimately made the confusion I was feeling even worse. How could someone violate my trust so badly but yet it felt so good.

    This is not the sort of thing that any child (or adult) should be forced to confront. It's not pleasurable to have your entire sense of self destroyed.

    It sounds dramatic, when one person has all the power it can be.

  3. 😜You guys claiming abuse are wacked ok? #1 never said NO once #2 you kept going back for more #3 no porn exposure but violence and REAL abuse that you wanted to escape from in YOUR OWN home #4 somebody showed you some attention (manipulated yes but harmless in my book) I would've killed for that kind of attention growing up in a house where I was non existant, ignored & sense of self was raped daily #5 you had an experience that felt good compared to what you got from your own parents/home Stop calling it abuse & stop crying about it, my God.

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